I want to add that I've had a good week, and didn't obsess about my T and FB. I just sent her a long email because I had a lot to tell her, including a scheduling issue. I included looking at her FB page and wrote that I want to talk about popularity, validation, and my jealousy, and that I hope it's okay to discuss again. We talked a little about it over a year ago when I looked her up.. I'm in a better place now! I don't think I will have the urge to keep looking. What I have is better. I have T in person to have a relationship, not just a photo to admire!