Hi Ios88

Thank you for introducing yourself to us.

I am glad that you are here at Psychcentral.

Welcome.

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I know heaps of 4/5 year olds that day dream quite a lot - it is very common at this age.

And they'll dance all around their room too; I know people that do this; not just kids, this is for sure.

So I don't think that the dancing and the music sounds weird at all.

I think that when we read books or watch films yes we can look towards certain characters indeed. And make a judgment on how we perceive them.

Those that we find more idealising we look towards traits that we find attractive.

So I guess when you are living out your every day life you are in some way questioning "What would X be doing?" to seek some sort of assurance that you may be on the right track.

This in itself isn't all that harmful so long as you are leaving some space for your own personal identity.

Which is where I think the balance lies.

Still being able to be true to yourself and your values.

And to be able to interact in every day situaitons with others; be it family or be it friends with the freedom to be you.