Hi Wiffle07

Thank you for introducing yourself here to us at Psychcentral.

I am glad that you have joined us.

This is a great place to be for online support.

I am sorry to hear that your girlfriend left after an argument. And that there seemed to be little communication in this regard as you said "she won't talk to me".

It's extra hard if you have been living together.

I can understand how you would be hurt because you were not invited to this wedding.

And there is this need for closure, I think that this can be a normal response at the end of a relationship. You may not be living together in the same proximity but your love has not diminished.

I really can't advise as to whether or not you should reach out to her (simply because I just really don't know based on what you have written how she feels).

But I think that if you are still having these strong feelings, yes, please consider getting in contact with her as an option, if this is what you wish.

It will be baby steps at first.

I would imagine that if she has moved out she would have formed her reasons as to why this was the best decision.

So it's about figuring out what it is that she wants to have addressed.

And working with her on this.

I hope you are able to work something out.

And find some peace of mind.