I am sorry to be the barer of bad news. But you don't have a marriage you have an arrangement.A husband is suppose to love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave his self for it.Have you read the book The Compassionate Side Of Divorce by: C.S. Lovett?I don't see a Christian man I see a man who hates women and is taking it out on you.Sometimes the truth can be so bruittle. I am sorry for your pain. smilie