Thank you all very much for your responses! I hear you and know exactly what you are saying. I try so hard to not get involved, to not "make the same mistakes with her" so to speak. LOL
While I was writing this post, she came in to speak to me. Many things have happened since my original post and I do believe that she has finally gotten to the point of cutting this toxic relationship off for good. I am somewhat skeptical, but encouraged at the moment.
I pray that she finds the strength to stay away, to keep him away, to begin taking care of herself. She is a good girl and so deserves to take care of herself and be happy.
Again, thank you for all your input. I truly appreciate it!
Hugsssss
J