Have people given you a reason to think that? I know in dealing with my family, I don't feel like they respect my problems or issues, as much as they should. I always think they don't understand things, but the things is all I do is understand. A person can tire of understanding, if pushed. I can tell you what not to do? Don't keep stuffing it down inside yourself to appease other people, because eventually you are going to blow up. I just did that recently and it's so not good for your soul.