hey so, i got my restraining order granted for three years, and there are visits set in place, and we are allowed to have contact, only to discuss the baby. but my ex is crossing the lines telling me he loves me and wants his family back - and i am beyond done. i do not understand how he could possibly think that there is even a chance of a reconciliation. i just think he is obsessed. him telling me he loves me and is in love with me, creeps me out. i politely told him that he needs to move on and focus on himself and being a father, i also told him that i do not love him and i am not in love with him. and that i have moved on, to a relationship that is rather serious. this annoyed him, i could tell, he said he didn't care about my boyfriend and then he started sort of mocking the relationship. said things like, "bet it doesn't last 7 years" and "doesn't matter because my name is on your neck" (i have a tattoo of his name, but i just tell people it is my sons name since they have the same name) i want to get this tattoo covered up. obviously my ex still thinks he owns me. i am not a piece of garbage or an object to be claimed. i am a human being with emotions. anyway... thanks for listening.

i told him before that i have a boyfriend, before the restraining order and everything, we were broken up or whatever. he thinks i am making my boyfriend up, that's fine, i don't have to prove anything to him. the only reason i told him again that i have a boyfriend and it is serious, is because i'm trying to let him understand that there is - and will never again be an "us". but it just seemed to annoy him. i just want to move away and take my son with me and never see this bastard again, data erase this one pls.