Hmmm, I think you're actually reading a lot into what I've said.
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I came back here now to say I have emailed therapist. I went out of my way to express that I believed she had good intentions to be helpful, offer me an 'out' if I felt trapped and so on. I also told her how the statement made me feel while fully acknowledging the difference between what I may think she was meaning to say and how it felt to hear it. I even made a point of telling her that my comfort in writing her was, in a way, a compliment from me. And, I apologized if I was taking too much liberty in sending such a detailed email (tho she did seem to encourage a response earlier).
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