I'm a new member so my posts have been delayed. It's a bit frustrating, but I think I'm past the 5 post limit now.

It took me over a week to get him to talk to me back in November. He kept avoiding me. I asked him to come get me once the movie he was watching was over, but he went to bed instead. I sent him a text, but he wouldn't respond and just pretended it didn't happen when he got home. When I finally got him to sit down to explain my expectations, it didn't go well. He got defensive, and I ended up in tears.

There's a lot of stuff going on in his head that he's reluctant to tell me. I need to get him to open up. I understand that it's MY need, but it's important to me.