I must start a conversation later about validation and/or invalidation. it's a very important issue and relates to what i've stated here about silencing someone with ridicule or shame. That is hardly helpful thank you so much for not. And thank you for not saying some platitude such as "God never gives us more than we can handle". That sounds nice I guess to some but it is illogical. Are you going to say that people being hacked to death in a genocidal attack are not being dealt more than they can handle? **** HAPPENS and genocide is proof of that. You wouldn't tell the Jewish people watching their children being torn from their arms and marched to the crematorium that God wasn't giving them more than they could handle.

I very much appreciate real honest sincere people - thank you for being among them.