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Old Mar 20, 2015, 10:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Artchic528 View Post
If I can get out and find a boyfriend despite soul crushing depression and no means of transportation available, than you can find a partner too. Hell, anyone can. I used POF, a dating site and have found a wonderful bf despite the odds. My advice is to put yourself out there in any and all ways possible. You just have to get up off your butt and do it. The perfect woman won't come to you while you're moping around at home.
I use dating sites and do not get responses. I've been using them for a while. I've heard though that usually guys message girls a lot on dating sites, but it rare for girls to actually message guys back.

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Originally Posted by Marla500 View Post
That is depression talking. I know because you sound like me! There is someone out there for you-and for me, and for everyone.
I don't believe there is necessarily someone out there for everyone.

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Originally Posted by Squaw View Post
As young as you are, you should have all kinds of girlfriends to contend with..I've seen your pictures and you are a very nice looking young man. I know you have a problem speaking up but I think if you work on that, you will be pleasantly surprised..I think you have a lot to offer a nice young lady, you just have to find the right way for you to do this, and feel comfortable doing it. Maybe the right one hasn't come along yet? Anything worth having is worth waiting for...Do not give up. There is hope for you yet....
Well I do not feel any hope.
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