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Originally Posted by Bill3
Well, if what you just posted is typical of him, then it seems that he isn't going to be giving you companionship and friendship right now, for whatever reason. As far as I can see, you have a few options:
1. Give him more time and see if he changes to how he used to be with you.
2. Accept that this is how things are going to be.
3. Tell him that you are sorry to say that things haven't worked out and ask him to move out.
None will be easy.
I'm sorry that you are going through this.
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Yep, that's where I was when I made my first post. My question is, because he has difficulty with face to face expression of his feelings, I wondered if writing him a letter and giving him time to write out his thoughts and feelings in a non-confrontational way would be a helpful. It's a helpful tool that allows people to gather their thoughts, write them out in a clear, succinct way, and not have to worry about getting interrupted. I think I'm leaning towards that. Writing it all out on this forum has added some clarity to the situation.
Thanks for your input.
