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Originally Posted by toolman65
Stop taking responsibility for his happiness.
You are becoming codependent.
He is a person who pays for a place to stay, that is all.
As a student, his primary concern is getting through school. Not providing you with the "friendship and companionship" that you thought would be part of the deal.
Either accept the person as he is, or ask him to move out.
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If you read the previous posts, you'd understand that he's not just a person who is paying for a place to stay. He is my friend, and my concern for his happiness does not make me codependent; it makes me human. I am not asking for friendship or companionship per se. I have seen a change in his behaviour and it is concerning. It is affecting me as well, so I came here for advice, not ultimatums.