Yes, I agree with Gayle! Please be careful and mindful of everything that you do that involves him. Not to scare you but, when my mother wanted a divorce, my father came over with a gun and played Russian Roulette with her. He lost and I lost a father at age 6. Actually probably not a great loss, the moron! Just be aware that terrible things can happen and you need to watch out! Big hug for you!