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Originally Posted by divine1966
Hello and I have to comment on what a great writer you are! And how well you express yourself
I am wondering if you should stop focusing on sex as much but think more about meeting a man to date and have romantic relationship and everything else will follow? You can try dating sites (not hook up) and look for men who want s relationship. Perhaps then you would feel different? If you fall in love and happy with the guy you might come yo accept who you are because you'll be happy. Did you think of that?
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The thought has occurred to me on more than one occasion, yes and I've tried what you said in the past but with the same results-- I'll chicken out and hide before I can even meet anyone, even for a normal 'date.' I know it may sound cold, but I'm not really interested in romance at my age. I'm pushing 30 and I've never been in a relationship and I don't think now is the time to start because the experience I should have been gathering in my 20s is nonexistent and I have no basis for establishing one.
Ergo, my libido has been left built up without outlet. But I hate it. I've tried many options in quelling sexual desire, from prescription medications to punishing myself physically for enjoying homosexual fantasies but none of it works, it always comes back.