The way I was taught, passive-aggression is like that, like being late punishing your boss and sabotaging in secrecy.

But I heard so many definitions I stopped caring about what it meant, better to use other words in my case.

I got really surprised being accused of being passive-aggressive and there was a lot of misunderstandings. I had to ask what they really meant, and they plain meant hostile. Which for me is nothing to do with passive.