Kisha -- I agree with those who think you need more than one test before moving ahead with these other, very serious decisions. I should think that you need to consult a physician and not rely solely on a drug-store kit.

Second, I think that it would be helpful for you to see a counselor to help you make these decisions about disclosure and raising a child, possibly without a mate and possibly with unreliable income. I don't think I can possibly offer any opinions about what you should/shouldn't do on the basis of the few sentences you write here. I truly believe that someone who has time to talk with you about this situation, time to understand your values, goals, and life situation, will be able to help you think it through for yourself. Because, in the end, it's not what I think you should do that matters but what Kisha decides she should do. Please fine a counseling service that can help you right away.

My prayers are with you.