Wow my ex has a lot to do with why I'm seeing a T so I personally would not be comfortable with this. As a nurse I've worked closely with quite a few Ts & this just doesn't sound like a good idea-it's only my opinion but I think I would feel betrayed & probably seek a new one-maybe your T is having some boundary issues or something. Sorry you are going through this-hope you can work something out that will be positive & comfortable for you-take care.