Open Eyes!!
He was never been like this. I wondered if it has something to do with my degree but thought "no way" he's not like this. The timing was odd. Less than four months and he pulls this. I've been dealing with this for two months and now have Less than 8 weeks. This happened and I thought he was pretty open about things. When this all happened
I was SHOCKED as I still am. This is not the man I married. It was all my fault and he was thinking about allowing me to stay. He says I have to prove myself in order to stay. Then he said I'm doing everything right but still needs to think about me staying. ( Now that I know this is not my house it makes me mad. Yet continues to say he doesn't want a divorce just time to make a decision. Yes, when this happened he said that he bought me this house. He hasny given me money to help with anything. I've been paying for everything as far as bills, gas, and tuition. We only have basic bills such as gas, electric, trash, etc... We discussed getting my Masters and when we got married he took over the payments. We decided to make monthly payment so We wouldn't have to take out student loans. I've had to borrow money from my parents to make ends meet. Basically, I'm able to stay in the house rent free and that is it. The last week has been all work. Work has verbally abused him over and over. He said he has a lot of mentally things going on.
So my question is .... Why not just divorce me? Why the games??