It's ok ((((southernpieceofmind))), a lot of people are passive/agressive, it's certainly not the end of the world, that is something you can learn to change and develop better/healthier skills. Hey, you know what? We all grow and learn and honestly, 24 is still very young. And most at that age think they are supposed to have it all together, well, sorry, but that isn't how it really is. You know what, go into your search bar and type that question in, "what is DBT" and you should be able to read about it.
Also, if you are using birth control, that can actually throw off your hormones and make you depressed. My daughter can't go on birth control pills (made her depressed) for example, she ended up using an IUD instead.
Want to know a secret, most people "are" their own worst critics.
((Hugs))