I know your not diagnosing him. I'm going to look at the Narcissist definition. Like I said at first I thought it was the degree, then I thought about what a horrible peson he said I was, now it's work. Looking back at what has happened. With these problems they all seem to revolve around one main person. He's had a problem with a lot of individuals now the main people are at work. Verbal abuse.
He bought the boat and I wasn't aware of it. He bought a big fish tank I was t aware of it. When I first came back into the home. He would just sit and watch the fish in the fish tank for about an hour a night.