No, i think i get it. My t always has the last word. Rainbow was saying thank you, and my t would have emailed back youre welcome. Just as standard t practice. Just to make me feel contained. Just to not leave me hanging out there. He doesnt have to decide for every interaction, he just has the last word on every interaction, period! Rainbows t made a value judgment for this interaction, saying okay rainbow is telling me she is okay, so i dont have to acknowledge it. But i like my ts way better. Do all the simple stuff. They can mess up the big stuff without even trying!