Hmmm...yeah....getting those two together could have cataclysmic (sp) affects. I don't think I have the strength to clean up the mess they would leave behind....LOL.
All kidding aside, I certainly know what you are going through. Trying to keep patient is soooooo hard some days isn't it? And never knowing what will set them off at any given moment....yikes!! Some days you just can't win *sigh*
Here's some extra HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSS for you and your darling wife to help give you strength to make it yet another day
xoxox
Jean