People say find a safe therapist. What is a safe therapist? I thought I had one and I was devastated by him. I don't think I can ever have that trust and attachment again. I don't get overly attached anyway, but I did deeply trust that he would be there to the end of the healing process.

I don't know. I think for some therapy can't work because of the severity of the issues and abuse and trauma and neglect and also because of genetic make up. It's too terrifying.