No. This relationship was never based on just him. When we would do things that he likes I went with him. I to liked the outdoors so of course I went. In the begining he liked all the things I liked (minus shopping) and at times he would go to the mall with me. Vacations he would say where he wanted to go and I would also select a place. Lately I have noticed he doesn't want to go to the beach, concerts, parks, anywhere where there is a lot of people. Suddenly he doesn't like to anywhere where people are. He use to love it. Now just the mountains.