When I got married. I married till death do you part. I would of never of married this man knowing he was to turn out like this. If he would get help for himself then I would stay. There's lot if work to be done. We've made a lot of process since week 1 & 2 but we have a long haul in front of us. That's if he knows what he wants. If he wants to separate then he can leave. I'm not couch hopping anymore.
Right now I'm asking questions and he's answering so basically I'm being his therapist. Is would rather him go see therapist, counselor, pastor, or go to church. The second week I went to marriage counseling class at the local church. Boy!! Did that open my eyes. I would like to attend more classes but they seem to be at times when Im on the field in the evenings.