you are laying master and servant here. one thing is i would be very careful to do all of the things above first, you have to be careful to do it secretly. just to make sure no psysical abuse would ensue, go and when you leave with your stuff secretely or with a strong person whom he couldn't overpower if a fight ensues. i see psysichal abuse happening because thats what happened to me, but i snuck and called police before he could get to me. he does sound very demanding and i would fear if he doesnt get his own way he would hurt you. good luck and i say get the hell out of there!!!