It's difficult because they are all different.
The best I can suggest is to try to 'regroup', comfort the youngsters, let the older ones express them selves in a safe way. Try to stay aware of how they feel but soothe and comfort as much as possible. Quite often it's not what you say but the tone you use to calm things down.
Hope this makes sense.
Gentle hugs
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