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Originally Posted by connect.the.stars
I guess I should have named this thread better. I'm not trying to stay friends with this person. Just wanted some explanations for why this often so-called drama happens when I am not looking for it, and how to avoid it next time.
Is it from being too nice to people? Then when I try to say "no" they take it really personally? I hate feeling guilt tripped into putting in more effort because they imply I am the bad guy.
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Hi connect.the.stars, You have given me amazing advice before......I so wish I could do the same for you now. I am pretty sure I understand the problem you're describing because I think I have a tendency to do the same thing with men. And I believe it does have something to do with being too nice.
Ahhhh....I just wrote out a bunch of ideas, then deleted them because I'm not being clear.
I guess for now I'll just say that you are clearly
not a bad person (that is very obvious). Quite the opposite, hun.