I did everything I could to avoid being attached to mine. And, I haven't flat out said "I'm attached to you". But, one session I said I was sad at the end and she asked why. I couldn't figure it out and then I said "oh, it's the stupid attachment". She said "yeah, stupid attachment" and smiled. I don't think I would have that longing if I wasn't attached. And, I don't think I've really attached to many people in my life since I usually have the "I don't need anyone" mentality. So, this all came as a surprise. I too guess that I need it to process things from my childhood and hope it will lessen as time goes on and I process more.
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