Same.

From the arm chair..

Dad - NPD, AsPD traits
Grandma 1- Malignant NPD
Gpa - an angel, but a war veteran who has no trouble killing at the same time

Mom - Codependant, possible covert-narcissism
Sister - Borderline
Grandma 2 - an angel
Gpa - an angel

I have one side relatively normal and sweet, and one side controlling and malignant. I guess it is why I am so good at playing many parts.. I have seen emotional, normal people (mom and sister) and learned to mimic their expressions and the way they talk about morals/passions. I watch my mom cry with the fatties on The Biggest Loser and such.. and then my dad.. well, i guess i learned a lot from him too. Mostly what Not to do, but a lot of good, manly/dominant traits from him. I am more a thinker than him, though, he more a talker. Although I am diagnosed with both NPD and AsPD, i find my AsPD tends to become the dominant force the older i become.