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If it makes you uncomfortable - it's bullying to you. You are in a tough situation.
I am a pretty friendly person but I am also very strong. If someone crosses the line.. I usually can diffuse the situation with humor while making a point. Maybe the counselor is trying to help you look at it in a different light - so you do not have to worry about losing your job or looking for a new one - that does not make it right!
Not sure if other employees are feeling the same way you are. If he is a valued employee...it gets tricky.
You may consider going to your HR dept... but beware, they are not always fair, although.. if others are feeling like you do... the company will not want to worry about being sued. You also may have to consider looking for a different job - or transfer - not sure if there are other positions within the company that do not require you to be around this vp.
Good luck... I hope they do right by you!!!!!!
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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