I have a young cousin who is 13. She is very pretty and great at sports. She and I were pretty tight, talked a lot. Lately our conversations have been few and far between unless I initiate them. She says its not anything I have done. I know shes busy with her sports, family etc. I talked to her sister and apparently a boy she liked dumped her and his friends have been harassing her.\

I want to be there for her, we used to talk and it bothers me she hasn't opened up to me about it, and the fact we hardly talk. I think of this girl as a younger sister. I have told her over and over I am there for her 24/7, but I don't want to alienate her.

Anyone got advice? I don't want us to continue to drift, but at the same time I don't want to push her.