Can I ask what you mean by this? How did he maniplulate you not to? Do you mean that HE talked to your new T or you did? I don't ask to be nosy, I just want some clarification to better understand what you're trying to say.

Why do you say it's too late? This guy did horrible things to you & he needs to be held accountable, not only to protect you but to protect others he may be working with now or in future. I really think he needs to be reported, as what he did is absolutely egregious & unacceptable.

I am not judging you for what you said or your decision not to, I hope it doesn't read that way but I just worry that if he is not reported for this he will continue unimpeded & harm other people the way he harmed you.

I hope you find compassion & healing in this journey with your new T & that he can help you process your feelings about what has happened to you.