Brown owl - thats why one thing that binds me to my t is his philosophy degree - i feel like we have the same depressed, nihilistic outlook on life! So yeah, the art vs science conflict - right off, i can see how you would be dismissive of each other. When things get rough, what holds you together? I know that sounds like a "real" relationship, but how do you value another persons opinion about your life unless you know you value them?