But i think thats too generous of you, and ultimately unsafe. Plus you sound like the old me. Dont you deserve to be around "your own people"? We didnt have a choice when we were growing up, but now we do. I know it sounds backwards, but i had to learn to be more closed-minded - really to stop casting my pearls before swine as they say. You dont want to invest where there will be no return. Hard lesson for me to learn.