Home life can be so stressing. I used to rage thinking I was instilling order and parental guidance, until my son asked me why I hated him so much. I choked. A lot of it was from untreated bipolar, but also frustrations, expectations, fear, inadequecies about myself, my incapabilities, worry, poor self image, self doubt, etc. the problems were more about me that I was projecting out on them. I knew then that I had a lot of personal work to do. Things got better for us.