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I guess just allow your friend to find his own solution? I know its hard to sit back and watch someone we care about "going thought it"...but at the end of the day the person has to find his/her own will to survive...maybe you can look at why you are so worried??? ...

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I think I worry about him so much because he is so much like me. His usually-peppy personality keeps me upbeat ya know? Like, if he falls, I fall kind of thing. Hopefully not...I just hate being shut out of his life and I don't want him to do that to me while i want to help him so badly. Perhaps control issues within myself? I don't like being helpless...or feeling so.

thanks so much for your reply