I wouldn't tell him, unless the outcome is, I carry the baby to term and you raise it autonomously.


Because exactly how else does that convo end up with us both winning???


My ex bf decided I was having an abortion, it was his idea and he was adamant about it.


Sounds like a prick move, and probably was, but it ended up being the best choice under the circumstances.


But guess,what? It was still me who dealt with it alone.


In hind sight, I would've been better off going through that in complete secrecy, as opposed to having him know and being completely unsupportive.