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I personally would not tell him. In my life experiences so far - it is really hard to know "who someone really is" after 2 months. There are enough unwanted children in this world.
On the other hand, you could inform him and try to be smart on both ends and give the child up for adoption???
I personally wished many many times that I was not born into the family I was born into. I know others do not feel that way.
Good luck with your decision - once you make that decision - do not torture yourself.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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