no i know, i just thought maybe he'd get it if i told him i moved on, but i guess he thinks i am making up the new boyfriend. that's fine. like i said in a previous post, i blocked his phone from any communication, i'm good. he can't handle it, he always brings it back to the possibility of a reconciliation. that will never in my life, happen. i am beyond done with this guy. i regret even allowing visits, oh but then it "looks bad on me". gtfo. anyway. thanks for your feedback guys. i appreciate it.