Canders yes thats nice to get something from T...I tend to try and atick with just T because otherwise I am feeling myself up with to many ideas...plus for me a group isn't what I need...I think I'd tend to act out more..give me an audience and my real feelings are gone..I'm into attention seeking mode *big blush* well I'm a lot better now...but in the begining it was best I stuck wiht 1 on 1...

I read a great book on SI called "Women who hurt themselves"