^ I agree with this. Before telling or even hinting at anything to the T, I would flat out ask whether they have any rules against group members becoming personal friends or dating. In fact, I would go as far as bringing it up as a "what if" scenario.

I would hate for you to reveal it and then have the T insist that one of you leave. Really puts you in a terrible situation if that were to happen. To before revealing any details, I would find out first what the consequences could be of this revelation (if any).