I guess I will not say anything. It just feels unfair that now I have to deal with this myself when it was both of our faults for not being responsible. Now I have to take care of the procedure financially, miss work, and find a friend to drive me back because of the anesthesia. I wish he could just help me handle it and that will be the end of that. But it will be too risky to tell him. Oh well, you live and you learn.