See in my case my ex aborted our daughter. She told me, I'm happy she did but rather it still kills me like it happened yesterday. 2 years ago, but two years of memories that I may or may had not enjoyed to see her grow up with an intolerant mother who would force her issues on my daughter. I will not say "our" in the sense how it should other than biologically. I'm saddened by the ordeal and even though I'm pro choice. Rather it be best you didn't tell him if he's unaware, but if it became known. Just prepare yourself to get through it together. It will be hard on both of you or maybe one of you idk the sitch.

My ex couldn't carry her to full term without being in danger of dying given her medical history. I am ok and comforted she is ok, but it was a sacrifice i felt was worthy. For the best of all of us...

Ik this sounds weird, but given to what I've read no just don't say anything about it ever. Unless it is crushing under your own weight and you need to let I out then, but otherwise don't mention it.

I just wish a lot of the days she be running around my house with my parents and we watch anime and Pokemon together.. She's been on my mind for awhile and we named her, "Melody"..

But anyways good luck