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Old Mar 24, 2015, 05:23 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
We see each other about twice a week.

He is extremely busy as he has three children of different ages and they demand attention ( one is special needs), he just started new job also moved and is recently divorced. He might be emotionally available but he is just so extremely busy that it makes him not available time wise so relationship just not moving forward.

No he is not involved with others, he barely had the time for one woman!

He says it is all temporary but I have feeling I have to go with what's there in front of me not what might get better in the future.

I started to have this strange anxious feeling in my stomach that i always have when my guts sending me a signal: the guy is not available. Time to run!

My t says I have to keep my eyes open and not focus on one person too early. I do like the guy, and he is a nice person. I am trying to break a pattern of attracting unavailable men but dang it. It is just keeps happening (family dynamics) My t is on board sometimes I wish she went on s date with me and a guy and told me if he is available or not lol

Maybe 3 months is a good idea but I don't want to get involved and then have my heart broken. Something tells me to listen to my gut feelings

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At this stage of dating, it does sound like a fair amount of time spent together.
What is it that you're expecting that isn't happening?
Why are you worried about a broken heart, at this stage? Wouldn't you have as much heartbreaking to do, as he could?

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