Direction, thank you very much for listening to my "rant". I appreciate the advice.

The Father's Day thing was supposed to be a fishing trip down by where we live.

This was the plan that started out simple and became a huge deal to the point where my mom wants (hasn't been confirmed yet) to cancel the whole thing.

I was prepared to deal with a whole day of stress and do whatever they had planned. You know, just don't say anything and be as "happy" as can be and just be pleasant. I dunno I guess I felt guilty cancelling . And will probably feel bad if I just outright cancelled due to the mess.

Not sure if I should start now or wait after Father's Day...should I just go?