I agree, it's not playing head games or being dishonest.

It's more like putting your best foot forward, or peacocking if you will.


Especially in a new relationship, many of us don't want to be caught looking like crap do we? We always wanna look, feel and smell our best, even though we don't really look catwalk ready 24/7.


So this is just another facet to putting your best foot forward.


Why not make yourself more appealing by not appearing desperate or having nothing better to do than wait for him to pencil you in...


Not saying you do this, just trying to bring across a point.


Also, if you're always readily available, he may end up taking your time for granted, because you'll just be available tomorrow as well. Not because he's an a.s.shat, but because patterns and bad habits develop over time.