Is your T an ahole or just plain stupid???


Why on earth would he need to feel out your ex? He wasn't supposed to be seeing him in the first place!!!!


I'm so mad and it's not even my T, can't imagine how you must be feeling!!!!


Idk, this sounds so fishy to me, like is your T wanting to investigate your relationship with your ex by getting his side and comparing notes, or is he looking for a twisted client because he's bored....

Or is he desperate for money, gambling problem, or expensive hobbies???


As your T his loyalty should lie with you, your wellbeing should be his priority, not a new client with whom you have such a traumatic past.


His behavior just doesn't add up, I smell a rat. A huge smelly, beady eyed, rabid rat.


If it were me and my T asked me if I wanted a referral or he should provide my ex with one, I would tell him that he needed to choose between us, my ex or me. Because clearly I had stated my feelings surrounding taking my ex on a client.