Hmmm....its not like I've tried and he's said no. I haven't tried to initiate. At first it was just automatic. Now I wait for him to initiate so I don't interrupt TV. Man after I typed that I realized how dumb that sounds. I will not take second fiddle to a stupid Cubs game.....and I doubt he even realizes I feel that way because I haven't said anything. I know that if I say something, he'll make sure I don't feel that way.

Ah....thats what I'm learning, how to communicate in a mature way. So not used to a healthy relationship!!!